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One year ago we were in countdown mode: finishing boat projects, compiling lists, making plans, and in our spare moments dreaming. Dreaming about the months to come where we’d sail across the South Pacific, stop in extraordinary places and live out the ultimate fantasy.
It’s still
a bit surreal to realize we did it—but each time we’re asked for advice, or our
opinions, it becomes a little more real. The typical question is a vague one—what
advice do we have for wanna-bes? What could we tell those who want to follow in
our wake?
I know the
popular answer is, ‘Just go! Go now. Don’t wait. Don’t let life hold you back!’
And sure—that’s great advice if your boat, your bank account, and you are ready
enough to go.
If not? Our
honest advice? Don’t go. Not yet…
I know—this
is a very unpopular position. Quite negative really… Especially if you’ve read
those blogs and books by the bumbling sailor types who were clueless when they
started but then all the misadventures led to grand adventures and finally a
book deal. But those sailors are the exception. Honestly.
Too often
momentum, money and skill run out before the adventure is done. Want proof? Go
look for a cheap used boat—you’ll find them all over the world, abandoned when the
cruising kitty ran dry, or the marriage ended or the breakdowns mounted up. No
one blogs about these trips and these abandoned dreams—but seriously no one
sets out with the plan of selling a boat with a
hole in it from Vanuatu…
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Is your
boat ready?
Boats don’t
need to be fancy or outfitted with the latest and greatest, but they do need to
be well founded and in good repair. Rigging needs to be relatively new (we know
of several boats
that lost masts in some very isolated locations—and have encountered
several abandoned sailboats that didn’t have sticks). Sails need to be in good
shape and you should have the ability to repair or swap them out. You need to
have spare parts for engines and outboards. In short, every major system on
your boat needs to function well and you should have the ability to repair it,
or do without.
Is your
bank account ready?
How much
money is enough? No two budgets are the same… So I can’t offer a number. I can
say this—it’s hard to make money when you are travelling, so plan to be
financially self-sufficient for as long as you plan to be out. Planning to stop
and work is cool—many of us do that—but you need have money enough to bridge
the gap. Assume expensive things will break. Assume you’ll need some sort of
medical care. Assume you may need to suddenly fly home. Assume you will need to
pay to haul your boat or put it in a marina.
Budget for
these things—then if nothing unexpected happens, you get to cruise a little
longer. But if you hole
your boat on a reef, or need surgery, or your
dinghy is stolen—the unexpected expense won’t end your trip.
Are you
ready?
Bumbling
sailors do make it across oceans and around the world—and they learn as they
go. But
they also make mistakes. Last year one set of sailors came in to Nuku Hiva
after more than 50 days at sea, they were out of food and water, their
batteries were drained, the boat had a good deal of damage—it turned out they
didn’t know how to sail. Seriously. Sail trim? Not a clue...
We
encountered other boats that went out in terrible conditions because they
didn’t understand how to read Grib files or obtain weather faxes. We met one
family that drove up on a reef because they didn’t realize Fiji charted
with different symbols. Not knowing the basics—like how to reef—makes a funny
story, unless you trash the boat beyond repair. So learn—and do it somewhere
safe. Join a racing boat, sign up to crew on a long passage, take classes in
navigation and weather and then take your boat through a challenging shakedown
cruise.
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So I
know—I’m a total killjoy. Saying, ‘just go’, is way more fun. But here’s the
thing—cruisers look out for each other. Which means we offer advice, but we
also rescue each other: we haul each other off reefs, or tow each other in
through bad weather, we help fix broken stuff, and patch up wounds. And when
there are too many sailors who don’t have well-founded boats and competent
skills out there—it puts us all in danger.
SCARY! (But well said.)
ReplyDeleteWow. YES. And, really nicely broken out...I agree! No, it's definitely not popular position (well, it doesn't give ad traffic or help you sell stuff to certain publications), but it's true. What's going on? I suppose on one hand, you have a lower barrier to entry (cheap boat + handheld GPS = far fewer salty skills perceived necessary). The legacy of the early wave of publishing cruisers who sold the sunny side of the dream. But we saw many cruising boats in the south pacific without rigs... it's disturbing. And we all know that sh*t happens (whether it's a "weather bomb", a dead outboard, or a stolen dinghy, or a shredded mainsail), and you need $$ / skills to put things right. On the other hand, it's getting across that line from being someone who *dreams* about going to actually DOING it. And a lot of it? Just lucky in life, in your situation- to have the health and the commitment and be born in countries where we can build futures and pursue our dreams. It reminds me to be grateful every day.
ReplyDeletePhew! Thanks so much for posting this. It makes me feel better about our delay. In the end, it's an intensely personal decision because as you said, no two are alike and only you know your own situation. We're getting there...slowly...but we'll be ready when we cast off the dock lines.
ReplyDeleteThanks again,
Deb
S/V Kintala
www.theretirementproject.blogspot.com
Good facts for all those thinking of sailing off into the Big Blue!
ReplyDeleteOoh, I was scared when I saw comments that I would have everyone arguing with me:) It's nice to know others agree and have seen the same issues. Behan--I do think the barrier to entry has been lowered--in a few ways. It's not just the affordable classic plastics. It's also the more expensive straight-out-of-the-box cruising boats that give a false sense of being everything you need... We met one guy in the Marquesas who had never ANCHORED before arriving there. Never. He prefered marinas was his explanation and he had a book explaining how to anchor. I think there is this sense that reading the right books and blogs and buying the right gear can replace actual sea hours. And Deb, take your time. The islands won't go away. We've met so many people who treated cruising like an endurance race--they went flat out to get out, they went non-stop once they were there, and somewhere along the line they either 'got it' or quit. A lot of them quit.
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